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People Pleasing

June 5, 2025Darren MageeUncategorized

People pleasers tend to put the needs, thoughts and feelings of others before their own. This video looks at some of the common behaviours of people pleasing such as over apologising and over thinking. Looking also at some of the common motivations such as fear of conflict, lack of boundaries and low assertiveness, and some…

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Characteristics and Motivations behind People Pleasing

January 17, 2023Darren MageeBlog category 1

People Pleasing is much more than just being kind and considerate or just being nice to others. With constant people pleasing behaviours what we often see as a heightened sensitivity to the moods, the feelings, the needs of others.

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