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As mentioned yesterday here are some ideas to help if you find yourself in a manipulative relationship. One way to detect a manipulator is to observe them to see if they behave differently around different people. Although this is quite normal for all of us manipulators go from one extreme to the other, for example helpless to…
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We are all influenced by others, it is part of the normal give and take in any relationship. If you’re in a manipulative relationship though it may be hard to spot at first. Someone who manipulates others deliberately creates an imbalance of power and exploits it to their own advantage. This is when someone exercises undue…
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Dissociation can be different from person to person. How we see the world around us determines our reality. Our life experiences, thoughts and feelings certainly contribute to these perceptions. However there are times when we may feel disconnected from what has happened or what is happening. Our perceptions of reality may become blurred, along with our…
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Gambling addiction, or gambling compulsion is a disorder where a person cannot control the impulse to gamble, even when they know how unhelpful and hurtful it is to themselves and to those around them. Gambling is all they think about whether they are happy or sad, angry or excited, just paid or broke. Some ways to help…
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The stages of change model was developed in the late 1970’s to early 1980’s by James Prochaska and Carlo DiClemente when working with people who smoke. The stages of change are as follows: Precontemplation. This is the stage where the person does not yet acknowledge that there is a behavior that needs to be changed….
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For some people their first time in counselling can be quite daunting. The therapist will understand this and help put you at ease. You can ask some questions if you like, perhaps about the therapists qualifications and experience, or which professional body they belong to (Such as the National Counselling Society, BACP, IACP etc). They should belong to…
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There are different ways people self harm, though the most common would be a self inflicted physical injury, such as cutting or bruising in an attempt to alter a mood. There are some misconceptions around self harm. One is that it is a way of seeking attention, whereas the truth is most people who self…
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Work related stress causes huge problems both financially and emotionally through sick days and damage to relationships and our all round well being. Stress is a normal response to pressure, and most jobs require a certain amount of challenge. However when the challenges and pressure become too much for us to cope with we begin to suffer….
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It’s holiday time again. But while some are looking forward to jetting off to foreign parts what about those who panic at the thought of going away? Most people who would have travel anxiety would already be highly sensitive people and may struggle with change. If for example you are travelling abroad you may experience…
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Ever have a task to do but it seems so enormous, difficult or painful you’d rather clean the bathroom or watch a box set of a seventies TV show or nap? Here are some ideas which can help stop procrastinating. 1. Stop thinking about it and do it. Some preparation and planning can help, but…